Yes, I was dumped by my boyfriend of 6 months without any explanation. The 6 months included a cozy Christmas where we spoiled his 2 High School sons & my 3 elementary school sons. All of a sudden in March after a business trip I had, he just was not there.Struggled so much for about 9 months. (this was in 1998). Hearing the sounds of Harleys haunting me for a summer.
I even wrote him a ‘no hard feelings I’m doing ok, you brought me to a better place’ letter -no response.
Yes, I am past it, no he was not my ‘lost trust love’ but I still wonder…did he panic at the thought of raising 3 more sons?
Other times I worry, he had a previous health issue, did it re-surface and did he not want to burden me?
I’m married now to a wonderful guy, this ex was truly just a very sweet chapter in my life story, sometimes I wish I could just thank him. In some ways I think he was put in my path to open my eyes for my husband now (long wonderful story).
If you’re out there and reading this, thank you CS thanks for all the eggplant & anchovy pizzas and Port we shared on Fri. nites,I’m doing good!!