Hi @Tbag
First, thank you for letting us know that you may be out of commission for a bit. While we may not know you as a physical human, there are many who care about you as a member of Fluther. I wish you the best during the operation and the recovery process. Please keep us posted if you can.
To answer your question, the answer is already posted above…tell a trusted friend of this web site, as well as others, and ask them to post a notification, either in general or to someone on the site(s) that you have befriended. For example, at the begining of September, I was called on to go take care of Mom while she was in the hospital. I let a member know that I’d be offline in case anyone asked.
In another scenario and on a different web site, an online friend did suddenly and unexpectedly pass away. One member knew his real name and where he lived, and she searched the interent and found his obituary. In addition, his ex-wife found a record of his user id/passwords, and she got in touch with one of the people in his group.
The members held a memorial tribute to him on the site. It allowed us to mourn the loss of a friend, albeit someone we never met in the flesh. Despite the lack of physical meeting, he was a close friend through his internet connections. It brought closure in knowing what happened to him (a heart attack).
As morbid as this may sound, if you cannot let us know of your status, please leave instructions for someone who can. You may not realize how many people care about your existence and want to know how you are doing.