I agree it is more of a “mature” mindset, and less about external accomplishment.
Being emotionally “mature,” walking your talk, keeping your word, following through with your obligations/commitments, being pro-active and not avoidant of problems, taking personal responsibility for ones words and actions, having the ability to be reasonable and see others POV’s and apologize or admit error.
Being able to take constructive criticism, feedback, without getting your ego all bent out of shape.
In other words, having integrity.
Theres a saying I have always liked that goes ” His body may have arrived at the head of the table, but his mind is still in the playpen.” lol