“If the shoe fits, wear it”
Old saying that applies to many situations.
Happy events require happy music.
Sad events require slow songs
Some events require both, like a marriage.
These decisions are up to you to know the difference.
I only read your last line at the end of my answer.
No matter what music you select for a sexual assault, that song will forever be remembered by the person assaulted. Each time they hear this song, it will remind them of a dramatic time in their life…...so, select carefully.
Suggestion: how about “You’ve Got A Friend”? James Taylor.