This is why we ask questions. I had no idea. I am almost shocked. I have to think on what this means.
There was a question about hair coloring almost a year back. I remember saying that I much prefer a woman who goes with her natural coloring. Most women disagreed. This seems similar. I don’t like the idea of people trying to hide what their natural state of being is, but most women who replied here want the effort to hide the lack of hair even if it means going fully bald—as if it is your choice to be bald, although everyone knows they probably would not shave if it weren’t for the effort to make a virtue of necessity.
I don’t know if there is any generalization possible here about personality. Which is more important? The way something really is or the way it looks? I guess I must think it’s most important to know the way something really is, but why? Does that actually affect anything important in life?
And I don’t mind people decorating themselves, so long as I don’t think they are trying to hide anything. Maybe it’s that I hate being fooled? Maybe other people don’t mind it, or even like it?