I did not get his okay but I did threaten him (isn’t that the same thing?) on the “where is loser” thread.
I think I said something like “loser, your name doesn’t fit you; how about choosing
a better one? or we will.” I know it wasn’t very respectful.
We can’t MAKE him change.
He has to want to.
If he doesn’t want to we have to abide by his decision.