I know as a guy that it can be awkward when they rub against me. It’s 100% dependent upon who the lady hugging me is though. Is it a relative like my mother or sister? Or is it some attractive young lady?
No. Women (for the most part) have breasts. You either get the hell over it, or never hug any woman. Getting over it is significantly easier and significantly more enjoyable.
There are exceptions. When ladies you wouldn’t ordinarily hug trap you in a hug it’s weird. Though in that case it’s generally one of those weird side-hugs. In my opinion if you’re not comfortable giving a proper hug you probably shouldn’t be hugging the person at all, I don’t care what their gender or boobage is.
Usually not, but sometimes it is. It has more to do with the hugger, if they seem not into it, then the boob thing can be noticeable in my experience, but usually I don’t even notice they have breastizes.
It’s just a friendly but meaningless and usually brief squish. (The hug isn’t meaningless. The squish is meaningless.) When I hug somebody, there’s always the squish on my side. When the other person isn’t flat, it’s an extra squish. That’s all.
Sometimes if I have to hug someone with equally large breast and are short like myself.. Then it may be hard to get my arms about for a good hug.
One time I did hug someone who had fake boobies and it felt weird. It sent shivers down my spine. I didn’t know till I hugged her. They don’t squish like regular boobies. I felt like I just hit my chest against a wall. It was extremely creepy.
One time I went to go hug my neice who is small chested and she gave me a big hug and then said out loud that my boobs where like soft pillows. That was a bit awkward but I had to laugh. She’s just naturally silly.
But most of the time it doesn’t really bug me. Most people are taller than me so I end up with a shoulder hug and the boobs don’t get in the way.
Yes, it feels awkward to me, but I also have personal space issues. I usually give the arm around the shoulder side type of hug, unless the other person catches me off guard and forcibly hugs me from the front.
Ok, when we were little my grandmother was really short with giant boobs that our faces would smush into when she hugged us. We all felt smothered, then she gave us a big, wet kiss on the lips. EEEEeeeeeeuuuu.
@wilma “Guys I’m sorry I can’t be more descriptive. I guess you’ll have to use your imagination.” Imagination has been working on it since the subject line, no prompting required.
Every bit of information in the answers has only brightened and nuanced the concept. That’s just the way we’re wired.
But I really couldn’t have put it better than @bob_ , who is considering a different kind of sandwich than usual.