Do you believe in society, there should be the “dominant male” or the “girly woman” ? Personally no and in fact I find such expected rigid gender roles to be both unproductive and unattractive. However there is still a large fragment of society that still believes in traditionalism, as evidenced by the majority of advice from dating coaches and self-help bloggers/authors out there, as well as from regular men and women themselves.
Are such ideas foolish to you? Yes, even though I feel that there is enough evidence to suggest that there are likely some mental differences between men and women based upon biological evidence. However I still think the majority of these differences are the results of social gender role constructs which start out at birth in being blue is for boys, pink is for girls. I also believe that such rigid gender behavior expectations are extremely harmful to many people who feel that they can’t be themselves, so they fight themselves as a result.
Has society evolved in your area to where it doesn’t matter? Unfortunately no.
If someone does believe in such status quo does it mean they are in fact sexist by definition? Not necessarily, but I think that they’re foolish. Example, many conservative masculist authors/bloggers seem to think that their agenda actually frees males and allows boys to just be boys. However as far as I’m concerned any type of agenda that reinforces how an individual of each gender should behave because of their sex means anything but freedom for the sex/gender of the people it is targeting.