My mom has stage 4 cancer which has been diagnosed as either mesothelioma or ovarian cancer. (Do not ask. Apparently this is hard to determine sometimes.)
Regardless there are things you need to know:
1. It is not necessarily a death sentence. She is here. She is alive and fighting.
2. She has a lot to offer in life.
3. Think outside the box if she needs it. As an example medical marijuana has given my mom a quality of life I had not expected.
4. Just being there for her rocks.
5. IT IS NOT A DEATH SENTENCE!
6. Just because the medical profession says “it is so” does not mean it is.
My mom was sent home to die in August. Right now she is still alive and pain-free. Her life is relatively NORMAL. She has out-lived one doctor who told her she would be dead by now.
Bolster up your strength, lock arms with her and march forward. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. The journey is one that you will NEVER regret.