I tend to believe that compromise means both people are not quite happy with whatever they are compromising about.

What I am wondering is do you feel you compromise a lot in your marriage? Do you believe your spouse compromises as much as, equal to, or less than you. Do you feel cheated when you do compromise?

I am curious to see if men and women answer differently. I am not excluding gay couples, but the heterosexual dynamic is most pertinent to the question.