@whitecarnations I would then offer a suggestion of creating a gift basket of some of her favorite things like a spa pamper basket of hand made soaps, lotions, scrubby, pretty candles and one of those special hair towels that soak up all the water. Of course some massage oil so you can give her a head to toe body massage so so deserrves.
Or make a special feast basket like a pasta basket, or finger foods again with some pretty candles and wine or chamagne. In either basket put a CD or mp3 player you made with all her favorite songs, a card of course outlining just why she is so special to you.
If she likes to read then get a classic at an antique store or a book of poems or short stories or a whimsical book or thoughts for the day. Or a book on MIG welding so she can start that wraught iron crafting she has so wanted to do.
Just try to make her “feel” as special as she feels to you.