I currently have plenty of sexual insecurities….they’re mildly funny until I’m going to have sex, and then I’m not laughing.
Many of them would probably be embarrassing for me to say, but I am insecure about my body, I hate my breasts, I worry about body parts jiggling when I move, etc. I refuse to let a guy go down on me because I’m extremely uncomfortable with his face down there—an irrational fear of smell or taste or something, who knows?
It sucks. I’ve been with the same guy for 4½ years, I’m marrying him this year, I’m as comfortable with him as I’ve been with anyone, and yet I can’t get over these insecurities and just let go during sex, and the sex life suffers because of it (though, luckily, I make up for it with oral sex…the only sexual act I have confidence in). No matter how beautiful he thinks I am, I’m never convinced.
I’m 22, so hopefully age will cure that. In the meantime, I’m lucky to have someone who’s patient with me….and willing to turn off every light in the house before we have sex. :)