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NSFW Have you ever had more than one regular sexual partner at the same time? (Details plz)

I don’t mean at the exact same time. I mean you are regularly having sex with person A, and also regularly gettin it on with person B. I am in this situation right now and to be honest I don’t much care for it….it makes me feel sleezy a little bit. I’ve really been enjoying the single life the past 3 or 4 months and perusing my selection of handsome young man….but I’m not just having sex with these guys, generally we hang out at least a handful of times, there is a mutual attraction, or even more, and we have sex. And it continues that way. That’s it. But right now I’m kinda into 2 different guys, and I have no reason to say no to either of them. But I can’t shake this weird feeling that it’s just not “right”...I feel like I’m hiding something from each of them, but obviously I’m not gonna be like “Hey, Bob, I like you, but just to let you know, I did have sex with Larry last night!” We’re not dating, I have no reason to tell either of them. It’s also something internal with me, I think….having sex with 2 different people in less than 24 hours. I don’t know. Why do I feel this way?

So do I just let it happen and try not to worry about it? This is essentially the first time in my adult life I’ve been single and mingling and doing whatever the hell I want whenever the hell I want. I love it, but I don’t know how to handle conflicts like this….do I just wait til one of them fizzles out? I like them both. I like having sex with them both. HALP? Tell me of your experiences in this same situation. Maybe I invite them both over for some apple pie and say lets all do it together and consolidate? Just kidding. But seriously, I’d love some input.

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