You might want to try the popular Nigerian parenting blogs but I can answer your questions here too.
I don’t have any children though. I’m a 23 year old Nigerian living in Nigeria.
What are my concerns for the future?
Security – I’m worried about the Islamist terrorist group that is gaining power in my country and there are bombs going off every other day.
Neo-colonialism – All of a sudden there are Chinese people EVERYWHERE in my country and noone knows how they just appeared here. A lot of them are here illegally and they treat their Nigerian employees like animals (locking them in cages and beating them and so on). They keep getting deported but they keep reappearing.
2. How do I purchase food, goods and entertainment?
In Nigeria we purchase food from open air markets and from supermarkets. We don’t have grocery stores that sell vegetables and stuff because those are sold in the open air markets where we can buy directly from farmers.
You can also get fast food from different fast food places.
Every Nigerian household does this, from the poorest people to the wealthiest people in the country.
Goods are purchased in shops, retail stores, or directly from individual sellers depending on what you’re buying.
Most Nigerians have a good personal tailor who sews their clothes. When we buy western style clothes we buy from retail stores that specialise in western clothing. Some of us (e.g. me, travel to the USA or the UK once or twice a year to go shopping – but that’s usually upper middle class and above people)
For entertainment we go watch movies at the cinema or at the mall. There aren’t very many malls but in the two capitals (Lagos and Abuja) there are lots.
I hope this helps.