Conform was the word that came to me when I read your question.
I am thinking of an instance years ago when people still lined up at the bank on payday to cash their checks and the lines were crazy long….people would just patiently bear up under the ridiculous time waste because what else could you do? Many people live paycheck to paycheck and they didn’t have direct deposit back then. One day this lady starts to get all annoyed that there aren’t enough tellers. She starts heckling the bank people, still standing in line, mind you, but yelling for them to put more tellers on duty!! “Lambs to the slaughter!!! Lambs to the slaughter!” she starts to harangue her fellow pathetic line drudges. Jeez, I mean, that’s taking it a little too far lady, I thought.