I never made a choice about my sexuality and I suspect that is the same for others too.
My view is, some people like to eat meat, some don’t. Some people like to fly some don’t. Some people like to write with their right hand, some don’t. the differences go on and on.
It appears that if the mainstream are in fear or don’t understand smaller sub cultures then they rule it as wrong.
My view is that why should it make a difference if two people find love and companions of the same sex.
I think too many hetrosexuals concentrate on the actual sexual act, and feel awkward that homosexuals are challenging their preferences.
The act of eating is something that is accepted by all, the only time there is debate is when the details and preferences are shared. I could argue all day that I don’t like fish, the very thought of eating it makes me sick. However my friends eat fish in front of me telling me how great it is. I don’t dislike my friends because they like fish, it’s just something I don’t want to try.