(NSFW) As a submissive, do you ever take the abuse personally?
I love bdsm, and I enjoy being both a top and a bottom equally. As a bottom I never take the “abuse” as actual abuse, but as a top I’m always a little afraid that the other person might slightly resent me afterword. Do you ever take it personally, or feel a little hurt on some secret or small level?
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