Fire. I rarely use candles, and only like the type that sit down in a jar if I do use them. For chanukah I put aluminum foil under the manorah and I don’t leave the room while it is burning. I tend to double check the stove is off and the curling iron is unplugged.
I am kind of paranoid about getting raped also. I know every woman probably is, but I have had a lot of GYN trouble, including pain, and sometimes even when I want to have sex I can’t because of the pain I am in.
I’m phobic to some extent of throwing up, and it causes me to be paranoid about food contamination.
Being unable to commnicate when I am in pain, or even being able to communicate it but unable to help myself out of pain.