I was taught in Judaism that the children are raised the religion of the mother because she has more contact with the children as the main care-giver and nurturer. Women’s freedom to sleep with whom they chose is a more recent thing these few hundred years – whereas Judaism alas for thousands of years was a very strict and unrelenting construct. Women knew exactly who the father was – their lives depended on it.
this question made me feel the need to share a story:
ive known a girl for quite some time now, and she has always been known to be “very sexually active.”
Eventually it caught up with her. She got pregnant. She had a bf at the time, but was fooling around with other guys.
The father of the child is not certain, but her bf has no idea she cheated, and that the baby may not be his.
She is still with him, and continues to cheat on him, even after he bought her a house to live in and a car.
How can people be like this?
I can relate…. I get angry when I am in her presence and when her and her partnerare around I just feel the need to blurt out everything she’s done that I know about just so he’ll know. (You know what I mean, like a little kid who just got in trouble and decides the best plan of action is to rat on his friend for everything hes ever done bad while pointing a finger and yelling. haha)