I’m 55 and the voice of my beloved on the phone talking about nothing in particular can give me an erection.
Just because she so easily turns me on, does that mean she isn’t special? NOOOOO!!! She is very special. Not any woman could turn me on that way.
You wonder what this erection means. Does it mean he likes you? Yes. Does it mean he thinks your special? Who knows? It could mean that. If it were me, it would mean I thought you were special. I don’t get a boner just because I’m touching a woman. I only get one when I’m touching a woman I am interested in. Is your friend interested in you? I don’t know. You have to make that call based on the whole picture, not just the boner.
If there has been a lot happening between you two, then I think it is likely that he cares for you and is interested in you. Do you want to have sex with him? That’s pretty much up to you. If you want to, he might go along. Would it lead to anything longer lasting? I don’t know. In general, I have found that if I have sex with a woman early on, it tends to last. But if she delays for a while, then when we finally do it, it’s missing something. I think you need that energy of having to have someone if you want a relationship to have legs.
On the other hand, that doesn’t guarantee the relationship will last forever. Nothing can guarantee that. You just have to work hard at it if you want it to last. But sex, I think, is a great way to cement a relationship early on.