I’ve had sex in several different ways…
In one of the ways—I focused the entire time on performing, on doing a good “job,” on what I looked like, how I moved, on my partner’s satisfaction. That type of sex was fun—but it got old fast and I’d take a bite of cheesecake over that kind of sex any day.
The second way was the fireworks and animal rage type—incredible fun!! But, it only lasted a few sessions. After that- something just fizzled, like a dead firework. Again, cheesecake’s better- it lasts longer.
Another way—I just went through the motions out of obligation or whatever. Looking at cheesecake is far better.
Then… I found someone with whom sex became a trip to heaven, every single time. There is no focus on performance, just on sharing and appreciating each other. It’s intensely emotional, physical, mental and spiritual all at once. It’s indescribable. After that, what do you mean, cheesecake exists?
The physical risks can be taken care of with a few precautions.