@jca you act like this stuff is set in stone. As if you can’t change someone’s mind by talking to them. Why is it that we teach our sons to go get what they want, but we teach our daughters to sit and wait for their prince to come?
I’m really surprised at your attitude, @jca. I don’t know. Somehow I thought you were more of a feminist than that. More pro-woman.
If she is hunting him down, I have no problem with that. I believe people should hunt down what they want. If the boy turns out to have a problem with it, they he’s not what she thought. But if her instinct about him is right, then she’ll be successful hunting him down. There is no point in second guessing. Go for it. What’s the worst that could happen? Well, maybe she’ll wait another decade or two before meeting someone who likes her.