Since I don’t know anybody here personally, whether I develop a liking for them depends on several factors including: the kind of questions they ask, how they answer questions that also interest me, whether I agree with them or they with me, whether we can disagree without resorting to name-calling, whether their answers tend to be more-or-less consistent with what I expect and enjoy when I read their comments on any subject, whether we occasionally have back-channel communication, whether their comments are articulate and have good grammar (not because the lack of either of those things in themselves is a deterrent to my from liking a jelly—only because both help ensure clear communication, which is very important to me), and last but not least, how they respond to my questions and comments. It’s hard not to like someone who seems to like you by giving you lurve.