I think you may be bored with sexualization if you are no longer interested in sex. But most men are interested in sex all life long, to judge by how everyone I know talks about it. Also, it seems like most young women and many middle aged and older women are still interested in sex as they age.
Some of it is sublimated into clothing and makeup. I think it is safer for women to be interested in how other women look, but looks are a proxy for sex appeal and for sex, I believe.
Talent is also part of sex appeal. Adele may be fat, but she’s got a great voice, and her song won an Oscar, and she could have just about any man she wanted, if that’s what she’s into. Power is sexy. Status is sexy. It’s all about passing your genes on, which you can’t do without sex. It’s about getting the best partner you can to pass your genes on with.
It’s all about sex and there is a certain sour grapes feel to people saying they are bored by it. I think that happens when people don’t want to compete any more. They are tired of it. They want to give up. And they wish they could give up without losing status. Unfortunately, it doesn’t work that way.