It’s a nice thought, your question comes from good place. We all like to cheer the underdogs. But think about what it means to “come out on top”. Does it mean success at any price? At the cost of your integrity? With backstabbing and compromising and missing out on good times with friends and family? Hopefully not. To me surviving and doing what your want to do for a living is success enough. That means enjoying the journey whether you come out at the top of the heap or are just an “also ran”.
A former boyfriend of mine in college said to me that when his mother found out that I was going to New York to become a designer she said “They will eat her alive in New York!” (She didn’t like me much) Here I am, not on the top of the heap, but still doing what I love for a living. It’s full of disappointment, lack of accolades and not too much money but I have never regretted my choice. To me, that is success of a sort. I still wish it could be better. Damn, I want that Rocky moment! But it will have to do.