My kids spend the first three weekends of every month with their father. Since we divorced four years ago he has introduced our kids to approximately seven of his girlfriends. They aren’t usually around more then a couple of months. Last weekend when he picked up the kids he had a new girl in the car. According to the kids, she spent the night. I just picked them up and it turns out she spent the entire weekend with them at their father’s house. This seems wholly inappropriate to me, especially considering how quickly he spins through women. I have told the kids that it is against the moral code I am trying to instill in them to have this women spending the night and I think it is inappropriate. So the question is should I express my concerns to the ex (who is notoriously obnoxious and purposely contrary), or just leave it at having discussed it with the kids?

Topics: children, parenting, dating, morals, ethics, Ex's