Hoping for some real advice and help, if you’re gonna be immature about the things I mention then seriously don’t bother.

I’m trying to figure out how to describe all this and where to begin. I guess really it starts with the fact that I probably masturbate far too much. Even if I “force” myself to stop I just find later that week when I decide one time isn’t going to hurt I just want to do it again couple more times that same day…It’s like overflow from the days I didn’t.

When I was younger, and I won’t go completely into my past life here, however masturbation was a big release particular high school for me with the amount of BS going on. Didn’t have any sex during high school.

Now, fast forward a bit I am currently 22 at first I figured it is not a big deal and I did not start having sex till later on compared to most young people suppose. Anyways problem is over all I feel like I really am coming to lack the discipline for myself. I assume having a high sex drive for my age is normal, but I don’t know….

I also have to mention it takes me typically FOREVER to climax,(I find sometimes depends on the sex, that I can go somewhat soft then become hard again) I don’t have that much sex, but the last time I did I felt like I couldn’t even climax inside her (with a condom) I’ve done a little research and found that you can without not meaning to, makes the penis so less sensitive and that the only real way to get full pleasure is to do it yourself.

Been considering just stopping masturbation and sex altogether, but I find it really hard to do. Sex not so much as I don’t like to get around like that and currently been single while anyways, and I’m not a player or anything of that sort. However masturbation is almost anytime I have a chance to just about. Which is probably horrible I know…..

Help, or suggestions?
Is going cold turkey best way for this?
If I do how long should I wait?
Is this normal??

I feel a bit ashamed that I had to post this, but I felt it was a real issue and haven’t talked to anyone about it.

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