If you expect people you like to have EVERYTHING in common with you, then you’re going to be quite lonely. People are going to ask questions and give answers you don’t like. Some will do this more often than others. I’d fight with my own mother on this site if she posted here. We agree on almost nothing political, social or religious these days. That doesn’t mean I don’t love her and respect her.
I have people I consider friends on this site and others that I have gotten into really nasty fights with. I don’t hold it against them and I don’t beat myself up. People can surprise me with their hot buttons and I assume I can surprise them now and then. If your friendship can’t handle a tussle now and then, it’s not a strong friendship.
However, there are people who just rub me the wrong way here and on other sites. I try to read the questions and answers without looking at the icons. Sometimes I will see an answer that I find totally offensive or obnoxious and think “Oh man. Who would write something so horrible out in public where anyone could read it? Who would admit to having such a vile opinion?” and you know what, it’s almost ALWAYS the same person. Sometimes I swear this person has the psychic ability to detect what I would get offended with and then post it. I sometimes wish there were killfiles here so I could just not read anything that person wrote. But ehh…. what can you do?