Did seeing what other people thought help you figure out for yourself what you really wanted to do? Were you just being contrary, or did it really serve to clarify your thought process?

Did Flutherfolk tell you to break off your relationship, and you decided to stay? to see a doctor, and you performed your own procedure? to stand your ground, and instead you caved?

So do you think Fluther advice helped even if you didn’t take it?