I’m not a very lovey-dovey mushy-gushy bare-my-soul type of person, so probably not. I’ll tell my husband anything, but it wouldn’t even occur to me to tell him I’m “vulnerable to” him. Isn’t that kind of assumed when you’re in love with someone, anyways?
We’re just not that emotionally driven as a couple. The other day I helped him do something and, afterward, jokingly asked him what he’d do without me. He shrugged his shoulders dramatically and said (in his Southern accent), “die!” I found this romantic, if that tells you anything about our level of what most consider romance. No candlelit dinners with champagne, holding each other’s hand across the table while we eat, and telling each other how we couldn’t live without the other person for us!