I am currently working with a girl who I find incredibly irritating. I wouldn’t say I dislike her because she is a nice girl who means well but she annoys me to the point where sometimes I have to keep my distance from her to avoid being short with her.

The weird thing is, she actually reminds me of all the things I like about myself. We have one very big thing in common and have a similar way of working, some of her mannerisms are even similar to my own. If someone described her to me before I knew her, I would have put money on me being her biggest fan but instead I find myself wishing she would go away. I could understand if our faults were similar as you could say that she reminds me of the things I don’t like about myself but it’s completely the opposite. Any thoughts?