I didn’t really know how to word the question, so maybe my description will help. I know after sex, many people have what is called “afterglow”. I have experienced this as well with my partner, but there is a little something that confuses me and makes me think we are doing something wrong. After sex, there is always cleanup. I don’t like sitting there with you know…...“the result” on me or running down my legs or whatever. During the act it’s sexy and whatnot but after it’s over I have to clean it off lol. In movies and such people have sex and then sigh and just lay there with each other; there is no tissue or running to the bathroom or throwing stuff away or wiping stuff off. It’s just…..peace. And we have that peace after cleaning up and whatnot, but I was wondering if maybe the whole after-sex thing works the way it does in movies with other couples? Like afterwards do you just lay there and bask in your mutual sexual satisfaction or is it like “uh….honey…...can you throw the condom away now?” lol

Topics: relationships, sex, after, intimacy, NSFW