Very well thank you. haha
I am diplomatic but clear, firm, articulate and pretty damn direct. Infact, much to my chagrin I am dealing with a passive aggressive employer right now. OMG!
I HATE passive aggressive types to the core of my being and could throttle them with my bare hands.
I initiated a “confrontation” today. My boss, the passive aggressive gave in to my request for a raise a few weeks ago but was, as is typical, not clear as to how much or when it would go into effect. I clarified today, and she was clearly pissed off and said ” Your raise will be x amount, effective as of the first.
Then she abruptly said ” I have to go.”
I just said ” Thank You!”
I am happy enough, but of course she low balled my request but not by much. You have to ask for what you want…and I do!
You better believe I am worth it and I know, she knows, this is true and doesn’t want to lose me. Yeah well…you’ve met your match Ms. Passive aggressive. Besides, it is loads of fun to watch those that hate confrontation squirm when confronted with direct communication. lol