Long story short: I am engaged to be married in 2015 and I’ve picked my bridal party as I have always known who I wanted to have in it. I have my cousin as my maid on honor as we’ve been best friends since the day she was born. As bridesmaids I have the grooms two sisters and two of my long-term best friends. Now, my other cousin is extremely bitter about me not asking her to be in the wedding – I think because I was in her wedding. But that was 4 years ago. I didn’t ask her because she is having a baby soon and plans to have more children very close in age. I am not having kids at my wedding and I figured she will be too busy with them. Also, this cousin and I have never been all that close… even when I was in her wedding. She has been really passive aggressive about it and keeps making comments about the bridesmaids, even asked if she could try on bridesmaids dresses. I feel awful that she’s so upset about it – I honestly didn’t think it would be a problem. Now I don’t know what to do. Should I include her in the wedding?