When you ask how do we handle rejection, I’m still not entirely sure if you mean being rejected during the initiation process, or just not have the date lead to nothing. Personally as a straight guy I’m not a big fan of going after multiple women, learning to get numb to rejection. This wasn’t something I was fond of doing, and I’m not going to kid myself, I just plain and simple don’t enjoy trying to get someone in that way. I’ve been there and have done that, and those days are over.
I’ve noticed that when I mind my own business and show that I have other interests (outside of seeking someone) that they tend to flock to me. Many times too we’ll become friends first, so there’s no guessing with that set-up usually.
It’s been difficult for me though regardless, and most of the women where I live tend to prefer either red necks or gangster wannabes/criminals. Most of my dates usually havn’t led to anywhere, and I recently just lost both my job and seperated from a woman I was seeing, with both of these occuring in the same week. I obviously grew up in the wrong area, lol.
I’ll likely try Eharmony again, since it appears to be a much friendlier site to introverted guys like myself, unlike Match or POF. I’m in a transition period in my life yet again, and I’ve been focusing on getting a decent job (in my field hopefully) and working on my house with my newly acquired freetime. Dating will have to take a back seat for now in my life.
I’m not going to give you any advice, since I’ve struggled myself. I can feel for you and emphasize, and you should know that you’re not alone. I wish you luck, at least in attaining some type of happiness, whether this is acquired from dating/love or through other interests.