Tricky question for me. I don’t really look to my religion for guidance, yet I like a lot of what it has to say. I guess technically I am a reform Jewish atheist. The religion doesn’t put many demands on me and I am accepted. Ideally I would at least go to or belong to a synagogue, which I don’t. But, it isn’t that I really disagree with going, I just don’t bother, and am not inclined to sit through a service.
My religion when interpreted very strictly, orthodox, I disagree with plenty. I know people who will not drive on the sabbath, not even if their child or parents is in the hospital to visit them. Or, will leave their larents in the hospital over the weekend when they could have been discharged, but since it was not done early eniugh in the day Friday to get the, home, the relatives ask for them to not be released. A friend of a friend would not carry his tennis racket to the courts, he had someone else do it, on the sabbath because it is work, but would play once there. Some observant Jews will consider a child dead and mourn them if they marry outside of the religion. I believe a person can consider himself Jewish if his father is Jewish and he identifies Jewish. In Judaism it is through the mother a child is considered Jewish, otherwise technically they would need to convert. From what I understand some reform rabbis will accept a Jewish father as sufficient. I don’t think eating nonkosher is a big deal. I don’t think if there is a God, God is really worried about this. Reform Jews don’t worry about it.