The obvious answer would have to be my parents. I admire the way they brought me and my sister up. They are middle income earners and have given us everything we need, plus more, but have not spoilt us and taught us when enough is enough and to consider if we actually need things and not just want them for the sake of it. They encouraged us early to actually appreciate learning and enjoy it, without pushing us too hard. This has resulted in higher than average academic standards and expectations of ouselves from both me and my sister, without it taking over our lives and always knowing that our parents will be proud of us no matter what. They have encouraged us in every area of physical activity we have been interested it, getting up at 4 in the morning to take us to rowing for example. And they have also encouraged the sense of family, and we have remained close with all of our extended family on both sides.
Another person who has influenced me in a very deep way would have to be my best friend of five years. I know that one’s kind of obvious too but I think this is more significant than normal. When I was 13 I met this boy, which was amazing in itself because I’m pretty sure up until this I was still afraid of ‘boy germs’ and had no reason to be friends with a boy, I was in the middle of climbing the social ladder at an all girls school. He opened my eyes and taught me to not be embarrassed, not to be a sheep and go along with the crowd, don’t be friends with people just because they’re popular and to just be myself. Because of him I was able to be comfortable with who I am and I found true friends who love me for me, not for how I look or how ‘cool’ I am or what music I like or what clothes I wear. He also influenced my taste in music, and introduced me to the world outside of poppy teeny bopper songs, one of the bands he showed me is now my favourite and I thanked him by taking him to see them on their world tour at the start of the year- Iron Maiden! He opened my eyes to the fact that I didn’t have to believe in God if I didn’t want to (I had previously gone to a Catholic school and had sort of been brainwashed) and just opened my mind to a great many new concepts, including philosophy, which is something that now interests me greatly and I chose as one of my pre-tertiary subjects. If it wasn’t for him I could be listening to The Veronicas, wearing a cm thick layer of make-up and possibly tuning some wanker just because I was bored. I’m glad I didn’t turn out like one of those girls and I owe this to him.
There are so many other people that I would love to include but this is already a very long and rambling answer so I will finish here. great question :)