Fluther has the benefit of still being open.
That said, it’s always hard to move house. When I first came from Answerbag, it was hard dealing with little things, like the fact that questions are all one thread, instead of breaking of each answer into smaller discussions. In time, I came to actually prefer this format, as I didn’t have to make extra effort to discuss everyone’s opinion. It’s more inclusive.
Fluther is no longer in development; the creators have moved on. They keep the doors open for us. This means we get to stay as long as we like, and they’ll never shake up the site just to piss us off. I like that.
A lot of new users find our moderation a bit harsh. I like that we’re a tiny bit more highbrow than ‘Tony looked at me in class, but looked at my friend on the bus. Does he like me?’ I like that we don’t allow text speak or abysmal grammar or trolling or spam. We are a community, and we are close friends, of a fashion.
If you want a crystal ball reading or a dream interpreted or only the nice people to answer, you can give the sludge pit of Y!A a bash.
If you want people who will help you fix your computer at 3am, or talk you out of self harming, or argue religion or politics until you’re blue, or send your kid a first day of school present, stick around.
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