I’m a cuddler and I’m really touchy-feely. One of my ex boyfriend’s was exactly the same way. He was always touching me whether it was holding hands, having his hand on my lower back or on my knee when we were sitting down. I loved it. It sounds possessive but he was anything but.
My ex was an ass, a liar and a cheat and a raging narcissist. Go figure he’s now a big wig corporate schmoozer. lol But….he was a great builder and made me many cool things when we lived on property.
My first wife was a great mother and took very good care of her children. As for being a good wife, she failed miserably in that regard on many different levels.
I had lovely ex’s and I was particularly fond of two who died unfortunately. These two stick out in my mind a lot. One was female, and very creative and inspiring and one was male who in later life became one of my best friends. Most of my ex’s and I were friends a few did not want to be friends at all. I think I dated mostly extraordinary people who were worth keeping around bar one or two.