I was married to a porn and strip club addict once upon a time and it caused big issues in the relationship.
It was emotionally unfaithful behavior to me and he did not respect my boundaries.
Porn has become a major problem in a lot of relationships and I do not support the industry at all.
No matter how mainstream and acceptable it has become it is still a pain and shame based industry and many men become addicted to the arousal and fantasy.
Make no mistake about it, porn can be just as destructive as drugs, alcohol or anything else in intimate relationships. All addictions share the same components, lying, hiding, sneaking, and a craving for the drug of choice over anything else supposedly important.
It’s a slippery slope and there is nothing harmless about it in many instances.
It has the potential to be very harmful and personally I want nothing to do with men that feel they have to have porn in their lives to be happy.
I am more than capable of being the appetizer, main course and dessert and if you want an all you can eat buffet of depravity well….go find your Ho-town buffet and I will find a man that only wishes to sup at my table. lol