Oh no. I personally dislike the idea of eHarmony. I know it is great for some, and my buddy seems happy enough (though I’m not too thrilled about his wife. She’s bossy). But if my GF and I had both signed up for eHarmony, we wouldn’t have been matched up. Having kids one day is very important to her, and until I met her, I never wanted kids (except the one I already have, of course, but he was unplanned). I never knew what it meant to want to have children with someone until she came along.