shilolo said “If he had simply said, “I hooked up with someone I shouldn’t, and now I’m embarrassed about it”, then you wouldn’t be taking such a judgmental tone.”
– the point is, he did NOT say that. we will have to “judge” him based on what he wrote and respond accordingly.
to all the jerks on this thread, oh i mean guys on this thread (except for Eambos), if you can take a step back and stop trying to sound cool and do general obnoxious “guy talk”, imagine that girl was your daughter (shilolo, one day you might have to deal with something similar) or your sister/close friend. take that into consideration and then see how you would respond to jamzzy.
@ waterskier – i can take a joke, it just wasn’t funny. of course, i really shouldn’t have expected much from you since you just graduated high school too. you and jamzzy would be “tight” if you were in the same school.
@ waterskier/vectorul – of course you would bring political opinion into this.
@ jamzzy – the real motive behind your question had to do with your “reputation”. me and marina are looking at it from a broad perspective taking the other girl’s feelings into consideration. and your question isn’t “nice” so you shouldn’t expect niceness back. as for what to tell the girl: you could take the coward route and tell her you don’t remember what happened or you can take a couple of steps towards maturity and just apologize.