Thanks for indulging my curiosity, jellies. I’m just wondering how this situation has been for other people. I am dating a wonderful guy with one leg right now and it has also been a non-issue for me.
I’m just trying to get a feel for how other people feel because – and maybe I need to be asking a younger audience to understand – he hasn’t had a girl interested in him since high school, and I can’t fathom why. It certainly isn’t his personality or his looks (I mean I’m biased but I think he is both the sweetest and best looking guy I know).
Admittedly, I had worries that it would be a turn-off during sex. I am damn well aware that you can’t choose to be attracted to somebody, even if you really want to be; that’s a large part of what ended my last relationships. I’m also aware that trying to make a sexual relationship work if you’re not super attracted to the person is largely futile (again, previous relationship…). Luckily, it continued to not bother me whatsoever once our relationship progressed to that point. Yay!
My physical issues are not immediately visible but that doesn’t mean they’re not gross. Luckily he so far seems to give equally as many shits about my digestive tract as I give about his leg.