Thanks all. Good advice all around.
Regarding finding another job, I kind of suck at looking for work and writing and editing jobs in my area are not super plentiful. Plus, I’ve been (more or less voluntarily) underemployed as a grunt in the organic produce biz for a few years now, so I’m just trying to get a foothold again in career work. Plus plus, this is a really cherry gig. My health and dental are top-tier and fully-paid among many other bennies, and I go home at 4:30 with little or no overtime. I also have a bona fide office with a door, so that will help I’m sure.
I mention being single, because the dynamic would be different, I’m sure, if I were married or gay (and single). Hence, FWIW.
Also, back to the top of the page, the director made a point of telling me this as part of an e-mail earlier today. This would be after I accepted the offer, not that I would have decided otherwise regardless.
Oh, here’s another one literally, should I shit where I work? :-) Actually, I have a funny story about this. An ex-gf worked in an office that included a fat lawyer who would clog the toilet every day. He took to shitting in the women’s bathroom, because it was a mostly male office and he didn’t want to clog up the men’s room. True story.