Well, I always Quit because if I hit the red X then I don’t expect that file to be open anymore. In web browsers there isn’t any problem like this because browsers allow you to choose how you want to resume from one session to the next.
Notice: this problem only developed AFTER I’ve been running 10.9.3 [aka Mavericks] & only AFTER I wiped out my hard drive & started my Mac with a “clean slate”.
When I used to be on a Windows PC, many years ago, I used to recommend to people to do this: wipe out the hard drive & start over once or twice a year because of how badly Windows operating system was working back then. This MacBook Pro of mine is 5 years old & it started running sluggish & freezing up all the time. I never saw that happen with ANY Macintosh computer so that’s why I decided I would start over & my mac is running great now.
So, I want to thank you for your time & your advice but I still need to know what is causing this unusual behavior of not resuming my apps where I left them.