One semester in college, I lived in a dorm that was specifically designed to accommodate people with physical challenges. There was a guy who was my age and was paralyzed from the neck down. He controlled his chair via series of puffs in a tube near his face. You know how many problems this guy had? None. He had challenges, like we all do. And his challenges certainly seemed larger than mine. But here was a guy who two years prior was an athlete and took a bad fall while riding his bike off his porch. How was it that I felt burdened with mountains of problems, yet this guy seemed free from such things?
It appears to me now that one of my greatest “problems” was that I didn’t want any “problems”. We want things to be one way, and they are another. And we don’t like that. But what if we can see our problems as challenges?
And as others have mentioned, it seems to be our nature to generate dissatisfaction. This image is appropriate. “But the grass is greener elsewhere!” Maybe. Maybe not. Maybe the grass where we stand is perfectly green enough. Maybe it’s significantly greener than somewhere else. And maybe that perfectly-green lawn of your carefree neighbors looks brown to them. However we see it, the grass doesn’t stay the same. It lives, it dies, it gets eaten by other creatures, it grows again, and it flowers. If we’re demanding green, then we might be missing the point.