@cheebdragon I think so. Some men are raised in a culture where they lie and cheat, but I think they still are capable of loving their wives. It could be argued they don’t really know what love is, or don’t really love that woman if they do such things. I guess it depends how you look at it. Most men who cheat in a chronic way aren’t doing it to their wives as in “how could you do this to me” they are doing it for themselves, or because it’s what they know.
Also, I think many big lies mean the person themselves are doing something wrong. That doesn’t necessarily mean they don’t love. I know addicts who love their children, but they use to a point that they lie about it. Would you say they don’t love their kids? I think there are all sorts of scenarios that are very complicated.