Religion. My kids have no idea that my religious views have changed since I raised them in the church. My son has an inkling, I think. I think he is also agnostic. We don’t talk about it, but we’ll occasionally make comments that tells me we’re on the same page.
My middle daughter still believes, and I think that many times in her troubled life she’s felt that God was all she has to hang on to, and I’m not about to disabuse her of that.
My oldest daughter…..not sure. I know she believed at one time, and maybe still does, but feels that God has sorely let her down. If she still believes, I think she’s very angry and disappointed with him.