He broke up with me and swore that his decision is final. I was extremely hurt. I wanted to leave in good terms so I apologized and tried to explain myself. Now he is sticking around in a subtle manner. I do not think it is sexual because we are staying out of the bedroom as a choice.

My concern is that if he never wanted to see me again, and broke up in such definite way wishing me well, how did his mind change with one apology? Did he just leave because he didn’t want to be vulnerable, but when he saw I really cared and was hurt he regained power and wanted to try again? Is this an ego thing?