A well-mannered person is more appreciated today, since few really are, but much underrated. A lot of what well-mannered means have been for some time seen as misogynistic, or chauvinistic. In general a well-mannered person can have a conversation without ghetto talk, or cussing like a sailor. They can drink without getting drunk. They are sober and well-behaved when talking to them. They are considerate of other, not blasting their music to people who may not care to hear it, holding the chair for a woman, and the door, plus opening the door and helping them in and from a vehicle, a well-mannered man stands when a woman enters or leaves. They cove their mouth when they cough or sneeze. They don’t yell across the mall or street at people. Those are starters